Title. I hate to admit it but I’m an addict and the cycle of getting off to porn has made me seek out harder fetishes I’m not comfortable with in person. So I’m looking to quit. Not do no-fap mind you since that’s nonsense, I just don’t want to have porn in my life anymore and try and get back to who I used to be.
Any input is more than welcome!
I also have a recurring problem, so of course I don’t really have solutions.
I will say that the idea that porn addiction leads to harder fetishes is kind of a cop-out. You’re bored so you look for new interesting stuff. Do that enough and you might develop a new fetish. You can choose to nurture such a fetish or not. But there’s also the problem that most mainstream video porn has a baseline level of violent fetishes. You could try images instead, it worked for me a while.
Yeah I suppose I could.