I have heard from multiple people that eye contact is essential in letting a girl (or guy, I guess) know you’re interested.

But what is the 411 when it comes to said eye contact? Do you keep looking until she does? Do you then keep staring? Or is like looking at the sun? What’s the deal?

  • Tiefling IRL@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    She goes on to note that even when engaged in conversation with multiple people one should act as if their eyes are constantly glued to the woman, only briefly looking away when another person is speaking and behaving as if your eyes are irresistibly drawn back to the woman of interest.

    Honestly, as a woman, if a man started doing this to me in a group I’d be freaked the fuck out

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      Yep. As if women would never perceive men as a threat based on the same signals men would use to perceive threat.

      Men, logical and hunter warrior manly men. Women, attention seekers. Therefore, stare down pretty women to show manly manness.

      Alpha bro evo psych is so wild.

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        Jesus christ dude

        She goes on to note that even when engaged in conversation with multiple people one should act as if their eyes are constantly glued to the woman