I find it really frustrating to read that thread and see you running in circles arguing points that already should be well understood. No, nobody here wants to make a website where cis men or white people aren’t allowed. I don’t know why hundreds of comments are necessary to tilt at windmills while we put words in marginalized users’ mouths. I saw the inverse happening much less frequently (and at this point I’m not even mad when people put words in the mouths of the users trying to play devil’s advocate or do debate pervertry; if you don’t want people to put words in your mouth, say what you mean, don’t launder it with rhetorical tricks).