• SorosFootSoldier [he/him, they/them]@hexbear.net
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    13 hours ago

    It’s perfectly fine to not want it, the asexual community calls out this societal standard as “compulsory sexuality”

    Interesting. I wonder where getting off though fits in with the whole volcel asexual community as I still do that.

    • TheDoctor [they/them]@hexbear.net
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      12 hours ago

      Asexuality is about attraction, not about libido. Some ace people get themselves off regularly. Some don’t. There’s a lot of reasons to engage in sexual activity other than sexual attraction.

    • Kuori [she/her]@hexbear.net
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      12 hours ago

      to my understanding masturbation is still relatively common amongst asexual people

      e: the consequences of never refreshing before posting