I have a friend who used to be a family court lawyer and started teaching law at a nearby university. She said it really broke her brain to go into an environment where the stakes were, “if you don’t stay late tonight, you may be seen as lazy in the long run which could hurt your chances of tenure,” when the stakes before were, “if this paperwork isn’t filed by 3, this kid may end up back with their abusive parent”.

And also the university continuously misgendered her for no fucking reason on a bunch of her official school accounts.