• Queen HawlSera@lemm.ee
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    Ciswomen were having sex?

    Then wait, why are there so many incels?

    Joking aside, there actually have been times when I’ve been at a social event and I’m gonna fuck a guy because why not… but he starts going off on incel bullshit and how far right he is because “Women aren’t women” anymore, and I’m like… “Yeah I gotta go…” while thinking “Can’t believe he talked his way OUT of a sure thing.”

    So I fully understand why there are so many incels.

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    Wouldn’t this just create even more conservatives if they are the only ones having children? Seems counterintuitive.

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      it’s also a quite terf movement. It basically mirrors MGTOW. I don’t think people should follow them.

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    i highly doubt women will just stop having sex. its as dumb as asking men to stop jerking off. just never gonna happen

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      When the choice is a man thinking of you as property to control or a vibrator/custom sized dildo, idk why you think it’s even a contest.

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        your comment makes it sound like women are incapable of having sex with men simply because they enjoy sex with men

        it would be like me turning down a handjob because ive been doing it myself for years

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          Reducing it to the core,… yes a few hate fucks could still occur. But a relationship with a misogynist is only possible with psychological disorders on the women’s side. (Mostly Self loathing, no self esteem != woke women who have self esteem).

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    Read Lysistrata and good luck to you.

    When the system becomes too odious, non-participation is one way of dealing with it.

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    I feel like this is probably pretty effective. I feel like it should be a thing.

    It isn’t. They will simply import women from other countries. And this election alone proves the fact that all women are not a monolithic group. You’re not going to get a majority to follow this trend.

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      It seems to have had the desired effect elsewhere. Also I’m not sure if it’s required for women to be a monolithic group. This assumption is based on the gender divide in the current election. Regardless, Trump’s policies are going to have a natural impact and decreasing birth rate just due to financial strain so if there are multiple factors that are impacting the numbers that’s all the better right?

      https://www.iar-gwu.org/blog/iar-web/south-koreas-4b

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        Korea IS A monolith when it comes to a number of factors. Culturally Korea is the antithesis of “diverse”.

        My point is that America is nothing similar to Korea culturally to pull this off.

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          What common features would there need to be in order for it to work in the US? Seems that being patriarchal, traditionalist, conformist and capitalist would suffice.

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          Well, I’m pretty sure you’re right about South Korea. I don’t see that as a reason not to try though. I can only hope that you’re wrong about America. I appreciate the insight.

          E: Even if it isn’t super effective, every little bit helps.

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            Yeah no. Continuing this rhetoric is exactly how the Democrats will continue to lose elections. Making vast assumptions about men and telling them they’re lesser is what drove away voters for the past 4 years. The vast majority of men have no desire or whim to do any of what you claim.

            Edit: Just realized the swipe typo. Corrected.

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              Doesn’t need to be vast. You saw how a tiny group called MAGA got control of the government and people’s minds. You underestimate their plan. The next four years is going to be a lot of, “but… they can’t do that?!” for a lot of people.

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                Once again. No. What lost the democrats the win was Kamala. Biden refusing to step down earlier so proper primaries could be done (not sure why they didn’t just hold primaries ANYWAY). The democrat party proved in 2020 that nobody wanted or even like Kamala (https://www.vox.com/2019/11/20/20953284/kamala-harris-polls-2020-election or lookup any poll from 2019). Her inability to actually talk about her platform (and how she’ll attain her actual goals) and answer the question being asked lost her a lot too. A hard focus on issues that were not “top of mind” for the majority of the country didn’t help either. Not some conspiracy that a handful of republicans are pulling the strings everywhere. People were simply unmotivated to vote for someone who couldn’t answer how she’d do any of what she claimed to want to do.

                Regardless of what you think the border IS a valid problem.

                Now there’s some magic plan? Either they’re stupid or masterminds. You can’t really have it both ways. Nobody is out there convincing people that women aren’t human and have no rights. Stop with your nonsense.

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                  Total votes cast: 143,000,000

                  Percentage of voters who are women: 54%

                  Number of female voters: 143,000,000 × 0.54 = 77,220,000

                  Percentage of women who voted for Harris: 54%

                  Estimated number of women who voted for Harris: 77,220,000 × 0.54 ≈ 41,698,800

                  This is a rough estimate. More complete data will become available later.

                  I think that’s enough people to have an impact

                  1. Assumptions:

                  We assume that 41.7 million women strictly adhere to the B4 movement.

                  This group represents a significant share of women of childbearing age (usually defined as 15-44 years in demographic studies).

                  We estimate the average U.S. woman has around 1.7 children over her lifetime, aligning with current U.S. fertility rates.

                  1. Impact on Births:

                  41.7 million women choosing not to have children would mean approximately 1.7 fewer children per woman, over their lifetimes.

                  This would potentially prevent around 70.9 million births (41.7 million x 1.7) in the long term, assuming these women otherwise would have had children.

                  1. Annual Impact:

                  Spread over an average reproductive lifetime (roughly 30 years), this impact would reduce the birth rate by about 2.36 million births annually (70.9 million divided by 30 years).

                  Annual U.S. births could drop from 3.6 million to approximately 1.24 million, which is a ~65% decrease in the birth rate.

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    Because young men will have a much easier time getting laid when abortion is restricted nationwide and contraceptives are harder to get 🙄 talk about shooting yourself in the dick

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    I started this in 2016 in the lead up to the election. Got sterilized in 2022 after the Dobbs decision leaked. Too many guys are secret misogynists at best, and pro rape/anti-abortion at worst. The lectures I had to do to convince my ex that rape is rape, whether you fight off the perp or not.

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      Same boat, but executed the sterilization much earlier (2014 or so when they were starting to really push the TRAPP laws). Saw the writing on the wall and want nothing to do with any of it.

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    Given that the new agenda is to end birth control, no-fault divorce and spousal rape laws, a lot of women are about to have no say past the first one. Don’t get married, and if you’re in a bad marriage try to get out ASAP.

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    Yeah, and men who support women’s right. Need to support this as well.

    Seriously, look at recent events in Texas. Having sex with women while republicans are in power. It is a potential death sentence for those women.

    Unless you can groove beyond doubt, one off you is infertile. And honestly, given the way some republicans are. Only trust your own eyes on the microscope when checking. Because forcing doctors to lie to women is far from beyond some of these people.

    Honestly, leaving the US for a more liberal nation is the only safe option the way things are looking.

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      I don’t even know what that liberal nation would be anymore. Sure, for example, Europe is still largely pretty good, but even some of those countries are facing the rise of the right. And they have same objectives as the right here in the US has. Just because it’s not as bad as the US right now, doesn’t mean it can’t be in the future, or even near future. Look at what’s going on in Germany or France with the right or even far-right parties making large gains in recent elections and polls.

      Feel like it’s fucked in much of the world right now.

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    I mean, considering how many incels voted for trump, I think we’re pretty much already there. Many of the young men who voted red this election already have no close relationships with any women their age. Obviously women should exercise their autonomy as they see fit. I don’t expect it to change how anyone votes.

    I’ll probably be downvoted for this, but progressives have spent the last several years actively shutting down lines of communication with men, particularly white men. For the best of reasons, sure, but it hasn’t been an effective strategy for winning elections.

    Maybe this would sway some group of center-left men who didn’t bother voting, but realistically I expect it will have no effect on the ongoing polarization, or exagerrate it.