I'm 16, pregnant and married, AMA

oneautumnday@lemmy.world · 1 day ago

mox@lemmy.sdf.org · edit-2 24 hours ago

How old is the father?

Is he your husband?

What are the local laws around age gaps in sex and marriage?

What are the local cultural norms around the same?

Have either of those things made your relationship difficult?

oneautumnday@lemmy.world · 24 hours ago

Yes. 16 is the age of consent (recently got raised for 15), and there’s a max 5 year exception between 14 & 16. Age gaps are way more accepted here than from what I see on the US based websites for example. 4 years is really not seen as a big deal. Have they? Doesn’t feel like it.

KurtVonnegut@mander.xyz · 22 hours ago

So your husband is 20?

oneautumnday@lemmy.world · 22 hours ago

Yes.

mox@lemmy.sdf.org · 23 hours ago

Thanks for sharing, and good luck to you both!

oneautumnday@lemmy.world · 23 hours ago

Thank you! ♥