We as a species got pretty good at not sucumbing to all the easiest natural behavior patterns, no reason not to learn to deal with this one. Evosoc isn’t a very rigorous field, and it’s not the first time they proposed something to be inevitable inate part of human nature, just to be proven wrong again and again. At this point the only inate part of human nature that tend to stick is an ability to change and adapt. So no need to be sorry