Being sick enough typically meant spending the day laying in bed, alternately shivering and burning, drifting in and out of sleep, occasionally puking, and that was still preferable to spending the day at school.

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    I know it’s idealistic of me, but I still believe that it would be somehow possible to make public schools something that kids want to go to, or at the least don’t experience as a low-key and long-term traumatic experience. Tearing kids out of bed as early as schools typically start is where that hurt begins, and it sucks.

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      It is possible!

      I went to a preschool called a Montessori school. Montessori systems encourage learning through play and are based on the idea that children’s natural curiosity can be used to help them learn. It was a good fit!

      Unfortunately then I switched to kindergarten elsewhere and while I was really excited to go learn at school , instead I got in trouble for being unable to sit still or listen to boring didactic instruction and school became a much worse experience.

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      It’s still early but my kid loves school.

      I also, as a poor, unpopular student, didn’t have a horrible time at any point in my k12 education. I’m not saying things haven’t worsened or that they were ever perfect but the idea that the public school system is evil or something (other than teaching pro-US slanted “history” and the weird pledge) is not something I encounter outside of random Hexbear threads, even amongst people with generally progressive views. (Not counting frothingfash here.)

      This place is weirdly doomer about schools.

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        As a former educator I am among the first to point out systemic problems and failures of policy and so-called “reforms” from the no-oil years to even worse under obama-sad , where “no child left behind” became “race to the top” and in both cases enriched private testing corporations and charter school conglomerates by expecting kids to fail their deluge of fucking tests and planning accordingly.

        That said, “school sux and shouldn’t exist at all” is a clownishly bad take for any society that wants to exist longer than a few years. It’s “no veggies at dinner, no bedtimes” ideology at its most primordial.

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          As a former educator I am among the first to point out systemic problems and failures

          That said, “school sux and shouldn’t exist at all” is a clownishly bad take

          hegel “Thesis, antithesis, synthesis!”

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      it’s a good goal and is crucial to any potential revolutionary program. schools are basically too rotten for reform though, it’s very much a tear down everything and start from scratch approach which is needed.

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      Doesn’t matter if it’s public or private, schools fucking suck. I have to go back to one now and it feels like a fucking cage.