(Sorry, can’t upload the diagram directly. I mean, I could, but then I could not have the link to the site in the title)
I found neurodivergentinsights to be helpful in general. And useful personally for ruling out other conditions that also overlap with Autism.
Yea, digging through good resources is the way. One important thing seems to never make it on those charts: How much you relate to the experiences of already diagnosed people. (because that is impossible to measure clinically) Just be careful of confirmation bias.
Thanks!