The fuck? Do I want to date or not? What is wrong with me?

Shit is dangerous to do, I’ve had guys get very pissed at me for this behaviour.

  • OptimusSubprime [he/him, they/them]@hexbear.net
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    4 months ago

    Hey Com, that’s what we’re here for. Knowing that “I’m not alone” is that 1st step to clearing out the hurt.

    I tried dating again recently and I wasn’t feeling it. I know in the back of my head I was comparing those other women to her. For now, I’m just gonna work on me and leave dating alone.

    • CommunistCuddlefish [she/her]@hexbear.net
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      4 months ago

      That’s rough but I commend you for realizing you need to just focus on yourself for now, that’s the right call to prevent hurting someone else. I hope you get to a better place and find the right person / people for you when the time is right!