• Blockocheese [any]@hexbear.net
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      4 months ago

      Some binary and passing trans people get upset when they’re in queer spaces and asked for their pronouns or referred to as “they/them” before someone knows their pronouns because in non queer spaces, people assume their gender based off appearance and gender them appropriately (because theyre binary and passing). These people think even in queer spaces you should assume peoples gender based off appearance because it makes them personally feel good to be gendered correctly without having to explain themselves

      This doesn’t go over well with non passing or non binary trans people for the obvious reasons

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        4 months ago

        “Some of you might be misgendered, but that’s a risk I’m willing to take”

      • ashinadash [she/her]@hexbear.net
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        pathetic Okay I’m not that offline, I am a non binary and a trans people.

        I think I was happier when I did not understand that this Twitter® Screenshot™ is just binies getting up in arms over jack shit, again. Like hey, didn’t Contrapoints do exactly this bit about feelin sad people use they/them and wanting to get presumptively gendered correctly? Twitter needs new material.