• stevedidwhat_infosec@infosec.pub
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    4 months ago

    Captain bummer here:

    Most people if this were a guy, would immediately call this out as toxic, manipulative, and abusive behavior

    I’ll err on the side of optimism and assume this was just a joke pic, but I did want to shed light on the fact that fucking with your partners food without their knowledge and consent is abusive and manipulative.

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      4 months ago

      The litmus test of determining if there is bigotry involved is to change the terms in contention. If it is bigoted in one direction, it is fundamentally bigoted in both.

      You hit the nail on the head when you posited “if this was a guy doing it to his girlfriend” it would be toxic, manipulative, and abusive.

      Let’s make misandry as unacceptable as misogyny. Because true equality will be impossible until we do.

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      4 months ago

      Most people if this were a guy, would immediately call this out as toxic, manipulative, and abusive behavior

      …is anyone implying that this is fine, if it wasn’t a joke?

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      4 months ago

      So it’s been sort of a joke that my current fiancee and my ex both didn’t want me to lose weight because they think I look hot chubby. Both have said that they would leave me if I ever did get skinny. As a joke of course, so I assume this is a joke too.

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    4 months ago

    Butter aint gonna do shit. Add sugar to everything he eats. That will pack the pounds on.

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      4 months ago

      It does say meal prep, maybe he adds the sauce the day he’s gonna eat it. Otherwise it might get extra soggy just sitting there absorbing the sauce. He could also keep various proteins prepped in other containers and he cna just mix and match based on what he’s feeling.

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      4 months ago

      Butter has 4.5x more calories than pasta by weight. It has roughly 100 calories per Tbsp.

      If she adds 2 Tbps of butter to his meal preps daily, he would gain (or at least, not lose) 1 lb of body fat roughly every 16 days.