I’m sorry to have taken so long to reply! My problems with motion sickness have unfortunately only gotten worse as I’ve gotten older, and like most of my fun little bodily quirks, it got worse after carrying a child. I’m actually calling this morning to try to see a doctor finally about it all, because I think it might all be Ehlers-Danlos syndrome, which would explain some otherwise very strange occurrences in my family’s medical history. And it would mean that actually my generally pretty good luck didn’t actually take a horrible turn in my 20s, it has been fine, because being pregnant with EDS could have killed me and so could have several other issues. Happy to discuss more in DM if you’re curious, but yeah, I keep dodging the reaper somehow. 💃

I had no idea that any lizards were capable of counting! I know beardies are supposed to be smart and personable too, but it sounds like monitors are smarter? That is so cool. Huge and smart – lizard puppos? 😍😂

I knew that transitioning causes women to lose strength and bone density, but I hadn’t really thought about how that would affect their ability to participate in their established hobbies, even though it’s obvious. 🤦

Do you have the time and resources to do strength training to help? I have enjoyed the little bit I’ve done, but I’m a little worried that some of the things I do are making some of my joints worse, and if I do have EDS, it’s a really stupid thing to be doing to myself. And that’s why I need a doctor and an approved exercise program! How do you feel about exercise? Which kinds do you like?

Do you have a doctor that you like? Do you find talking to medical professionals as dreadful and terrifying as I do?

I’ve even been excited for my son to gain strength and maybe even a little height as he transitions (we think/hope he started early enough to help with height), because then he can help me reach and lift more things! 😂 Obviously I love seeing him become more himself, and I know he’s having challenges too, but it’s only been a few months he’s already over half an inch taller and his voice is changing, and I’m really looking forward to him patting me on the head someday and calling me his smol mom 🥰😍 and then getting that thing out of the cabinet on top of the fridge for me! 😂

How did your reptile fascination start? Do you have the opportunities and resources to do any related volunteer work? I’m from a rural area and wished very badly to be closer to a big city when I was little so I could volunteer at a zoo or aquarium. Do you have any interest in doing anything with reptiles professionally?

I have loved talking to you and appreciate your kindness and brilliant distractions very very much. I’m doing better now, and you have very much helped. Please don’t feel obligated to keep entertaining my questions, but also please know that I love and appreciate it. You’re a wonderful person with fascinating interests, and you generously and patiently share your knowledge and enthusiasm.

You’re an absolute delight. Thank you so much for your time and care.