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Nothing. Everything just keeps getting worse. Leukemia. Pancreatitis. No contact with abusive family. Relationship with abusive partner falling apart. Will probably end up homeless. Certainly feels like nobody gives a fuck I have problems or exist.
USA is killing me, sorry I’m not happy about it. I know I’m not special, I’m just one more broken loser.
Edit: why is my whiney bullshit upvoted. Just let me die.
At least you have your health. /s
I hope you get an upswing soon. You deserve some wins, and you definitely deserve better relationships.
I was off work, so a lot of things made me happy!
- Called up and visited an old friend
- Called up and visited an old friend #2
- Completed a 55km bike ride
- Tried two new recipes that I cooked with an online friend on call
- Read a whole book
- Found a new café in town that seems nice
- Had nice conversations with at least 4 strangers who I approached
- Borrowed one of these electric scooters and did laps around the empty parking lots on Sunday evening
That sounds like an awesome week!
Thank you, it totally was! In another thread on Lemmy, someone brought up the topic of cheap holidays, and this was mine ^^
I have a couple of questions…
Were the two friends you visited on your 55km bike route and that’s when you saw them?
What’s the context for approaching the 4 strangers?
The bike ride was just for fun and exercise. I was planning to cycle 28km north and take the train back, but the southbound train was cancelled, so I ended up cycling all the way.
As for talking to strangers, I just talk to people. It’s what I do.
To give an example, a couple was making their way though a crowded train. I asked if they were getting off at the station too, which turned into us walking to the same platform and finding we’d missed the connecting train. We ended up walking around town for an hour and they explained some of the local history to me, along with talking about the weather and the world. The guy’s brother lives two blocks away from me - Small world!
Then there was a guy on the train and I asked if I could sit across from him. We ended up talking for the rest of the train ride. The lady sitting across from us overheard us talking about computers and managed to ask us a couple of questions about making a website. We all ended up exchanging numbers and offered that she could call us any time if she had any more questions.
Then I also did the classics, approach a guy sitting alone at the counter of a bar, and another sitting alone at the counter of a café.
You just ignite a spark and find that some people are happy to respond and keep the conversation going. Other times they signal that they don’t wanna talk at all, so I just let them be. :)
I love your attitude and the connections you make. I have a tendency to be chatty with strangers too, but I get paranoid about safety. Like if I were with my husband making our way through a train and some random guy started chatting us up, we both would wonder if it’s a lead-up to a scam.
Aw thank you so much, I appreciate your kind words a lot! I understand your perspective too and you are very right to be cautious.
Despite a lot of schedule fuckery and stresses, I managed to attend my main hobby. A lot of my growth has been in regulating my response to stress.
What’s the hobby?
Judo. I just enjoy getting thrown a whole lot.
Nice! I did jiu jitsu for a little while but dropped it during the initial pandemic lockdown. How long have you been practicing?
I’ve been doing judo since January 2023. I’ve only gone to one tournament, so I’m going to work on that over the next year. My classmates are usually responsible about staying out when they start getting sick, but we had a big get together a couple months ago that left everybody ill.
🤝 Best sport
I got new glasses, and realized I have way more benefits coverage than I did thanks to my union contract update, so I can get two pairs, yay.
I love unions.
Don’t know how anyone works without one.
I was crewing on a new-to-me sailboat Saturday with a bunch of passengers that have never sailed before. There was an issue (jammed furling line) that required me to jump up onto the foredeck to fix, and everyone congratulated me on my quick reaction and calmness under pressure. I aw shucks’d the compliments, while hiding my righthand behind my back so no one would freak about the square inch of skin hanging off my index finger where the furling line bit into it.
Are you healing well? I would’ve lost all the badass points when I started complaining.
Doing good, yeah. Thanks for asking. I was dumb and cut the flap of skin off instead of laying it back over the wound and hoping it’d reattached, but I put a little petroleum jelly and guaze over it for a couple days and now it’s just a bright pink fleshy bit.
I saw some friends that I haven’t seen in person in a while :)
We started running the swamp cooler overnight so now I’ve been sleeping better. High desert stuff.
We had a lovely BBQ with friends over the weekend. Enjoyed the summer weather.
I can’t remember all the bits and pieces last week that would allow me to answer this, but at the very beginning of this week, I was happy to learn that people where I’ve been living for two years now, despite not having fully warmed up to me (and they may never do so, which does feel a little lonely), consider me a positive addition to the community to more of an extent than I originally thought. There are a number of people who give me a hard time in day-to-day life and I’ve noticed more and more they’re growing into the whole “leave Spiderman alone” routine on them.
