• Something Burger 🍔@jlai.lu
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      5 months ago

      I set my phone to automatically go into Do Not Disturb mode at night, but still ring if my parents call me. If they call at night, it must be urgent.

      • darklamer@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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        5 months ago

        That seems like a perfectly reasonable thing to do, very different from allowing “notifications and messages to disrupt their sleep”.

    • sp3ctr4l@lemmy.zip
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      5 months ago

      I have had multiple people in my life tell me that it is irresponsible to not have my phone on, 24/7, in case they need to message me about something.

      These are the same people who get angry anytime I message them and they are busy, but also get angry if I am busy and don’t immediately reply to them.

      I’ve been woken up so many times at 2 am…

      At least in my life, its quite common for people to be hypocritical douchebags.

      • imecth@fedia.io
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        5 months ago

        Most phones these days allow you to set a DND schedule which you can customize to allow specific numbers for emergencies and people that don’t abuse it.

        • flicker@lemmy.world
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          5 months ago

          Mine has a setting where if a number calls you once, it blocks. If it calls you a second time, it goes through. And it works! I use it all the time.

    • MentorKitten@lemmy.world
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      5 months ago

      I sometimes forget to turn on do not disturb so this has definitely happened to me before ¯\(ツ)

      • brettvitaz@programming.dev
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        5 months ago

        Set a wake up alarm and your phone will automatically enter do not disturb mode for the 8 hours before your alarm

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        5 months ago

        Sleep by Android and I’m sure some other apps turn it on for you when you plug it in at night, then turn it off when your alarm goes.

      • bionicjoey@lemmy.ca
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        5 months ago

        Bruh I work in IT (maintaining servers too) and my day ends at 5. You need a union. If you’re on call literally all the time you should be getting paid overtime.

    • Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works
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      5 months ago

      Someone with, for instance, older kids who could get themselves into a situation (and only communicate by text) and a parent in a different time zone who’s got Alzheimer’s and is being cared for by a stressed-out sibling who needs support and agreement from the rest of us by group email.

        • JohnEdwa@sopuli.xyz
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          5 months ago

          Yes. Android for example has an option to allow starred contacts or certain conversation notifications to always ignore do not disturb, as well as letting any calls through if the same number calls twice during 15 minutes.

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            5 months ago

            I’d love to use that feature, but it just seems so ineffective on my android. Things I whitelist fail to show, and things I blacklist pop up.