He lives in Nevada, she lives in Ireland. He’s single and is going to graduate college this summer and do “remote work” in IT. He’s known for a long time she can’t safely fly due to a nut allergy.

  • citrusface@lemmy.worldEnglish
    285·
    7 months ago

    SHE BETTER BE MORE WORRIED ABOUT THE NUT WHEN SHE GETS THERE - AYOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

    • citrusface@lemmy.worldEnglish
      13·
      7 months ago

      But also for real I don’t think planes serve nuts anymore because of allergies.

      Just send it.

      I really like you. Do you wanna meet? Let’s do it. I’ll come to you/I’ll help you buy a ticket.

        • state_electrician@discuss.tchncs.de
          42·
          7 months ago

          I’m not religious, but I feel when people have such comically awful reactions to common foods that god doesn’t want them to live. I mean, if someone opens a bag of nuts 20m away means you might die, how else do you interpret that?

        • bamboo@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
          23·
          7 months ago

          I’ve been on flights where they have announced to the cabin about someone with a severe nut allergy, and based on anecdotal evidence of a sample size of 3 or 4, nothing bad happened on the flight.

  • viking@infosec.pub
    164·
    7 months ago

    Can’t safely fly due to a nut allergy? Excuse me, but what? Those peanuts they serve during the flight are optional…

      • viking@infosec.pub
        95·
        7 months ago

        But people can eat nuts everywhere in public, on the subway, in class, at work etc., does that mean she spends her life in locked up at home? And nothing that can be solved by wearing masks? I’ve been flying quite a bit during covid and was wearing N95 and even N99 masks once (regular ones were sold out), and while not the most comfortable experience, it’s certainly possible to get through the day.

  • Chefdano3@lemm.eeEnglish
    3·
    7 months ago

    Ask him if he would like to take a trip to Ireland to celebrate his graduation. I’m sure he won’t be starting work immediately, but if he already has a job it’s an easy excuse for at least a 2 week vacation. You could offer to show him around where you live and all the cool spots. Introduce him to your friends and do some of the things you all usually do for fun. Then you can take a trip to the touristy spots, which is conveniently a great excuse to get a room for night in the city, ya know, to make sure you have enough time to see everything and not worry about the travel time and such. Then for the end of the trip, just spend the time relaxing, and hanging out together. Give yourselves the time to get comfortable doing the day to day routine, give him a chance to experience what regular life in Ireland might be if he were to stay a bit longer.