Feels bad man

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    10 months ago

    “I would love to have a child, but I don’t think I could do it as one person with the costs of childcare and everything … "

    Um, did someone forget to factor the co-parent in, or is voluntary single parenting en vogue?

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      Marriage and long term relationship rates have alao been plummeting along side every other “milestone” indicator. Obviously women have a much easier time becoming a single parent than men do, but single parents exist.

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        10 months ago

        I’m aware they exist, but the way it was phrased made it sound like that’s the plan all along.

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          I’m a single guy. I have to go through an adoption process if i wanted to become a parent this year. That’s a lengthy process with background checks, home inspections,and placement surveys that are taxing, exhausting, and dehumanizing.

          My sister is a single woman, she just needs to find a guy to sperm her up. They guy doesn’t even have to know that he impregnated her. Finding unknown fathers is a notoriously difficult task, even with modern genetic testing.