• diegeticscream[all]🔻@lemmygrad.ml
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    2 years ago

    It’s really disappointing that you’ve chosen to double down on the toxic engagement and immaturity. This kind of formulaic interaction is what made Reddit such a pathetic place to be.

    I hope this article can give you something to think about while you work on yourself.

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      2 years ago

      “I know you are but what am I” is not an effective form of debate. nor is:

      Ad hominem

      Ad hominem (Latin for ‘to the person’), short for argumentum ad hominem, is a term that refers to several types of arguments, most of which are fallacious. Typically this term refers to a rhetorical strategy where the speaker attacks the character, motive, or some other attribute of the person making an argument rather than attacking the substance of the argument itself. This avoids genuine debate by creating a diversion to some irrelevant but often highly charged issue. The most common form of this fallacy is “A makes a claim x, B asserts that A holds a property that is unwelcome, and hence B concludes that argument x is wrong”.

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          2 years ago

          it no surprise that you cannot see the relevance when your argument depends on your inability to see it.

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              2 years ago

              your lack of comprehension is not my responsibility.

              • diegeticscream[all]🔻@lemmygrad.ml
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                2 years ago

                You have trouble with your interpersonal relationships due to your problems with communication, right?

                I encourage you to check out the resources I’ve shared.

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                  2 years ago

                  I am not responsible for your psychological projection either. I would point out that you’re the one who keeps returning to an interaction you find frustrating and unsatisfying expecting different results, and blaming me because I won’t give you the answers you want.

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                    2 years ago

                    I think you might be a happier person if you learned to engage with people honestly.

                    It might even resolve your issue with your relationships!