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Just because you are not aware doesn’t mean they don’t exist.
Reading into blahaj.zoje more, plenty of queer folk are friendly and supportive, but plenty are also pieces of shit. Sometimes you may also not realize if you create an echo chamber what is acceptable and what bleeds into extremist rhetoric.
But echo chambers are dangerous and can really distort your reality. I personally find going from a safe space/echo chamber to reality very jarring and much more conflicting than from a relatively safe space with some conflict to reality.
By shutting it all out I’d argue you are risking hurting yourself unless you can guarantee a safe space in every aspect of life which is very difficult.
Echo chambers aren’t that bad. I don’t surround myself with people and things I like because the ones I don’t like are going to hurt me, I do it because I don’t like them and my life is too short to waste with their nonsense.
Not as dangerous as the hate trans people face every single day from the government, from media and from society at large.
People need a space where they can let their guard down. Creating that space is my goal.
The sad truth is, no space ever lets us completely let our guard down, but we get as close as we can.
unless you can guarantee a safe space in every aspect of life which is very difficult.
Communities trying to make spaces as safe as possible isn’t some slippery slope. This is either disingenuous or ignorant of the reality we face as trans folk.
There are no truly safe spaces for us. Even our safe spaces aren’t completely safe, because bad faith folk do their best to make it that way. Yet even so, many of us benefit from spaces that are actively inclusive, and remove bigots. Appeals to slippery slopes, or implications that we simply don’t understand how looking after our own needs is somehow bad don’t change our lived reality
Not as dangerous as the hate trans people face every single day from the government, from media and from society at large.
Not really comparable to ethnic\religious\racial hate anywhere in the civilized world.
OK, I seem to answer lots of your comments not touching the actual core of the subject.
See, “per user” moderation is good because everybody’s idea of bigotry is subjective. Bad because it’s reactive, as you said, which means it takes effort from the user.
“Per community” is sometimes acceptable, though it always gets ugly over time. I’ve been a forum mod from time to time in the late 00s, I know what I’m talking about. If you can believe me, I stop being unhinged when handed opportunity to ban people.
“Per instance” is bullshit.
See, this has already been solved for email with client-side spam filters.
Or, with social media, you can in theory have kill-lists (for users and everything they post, or for separate posts), and subscribe to those. So, just like you want, somebody bans a user and everybody subscribed to that kill-list stops seeing them. No effort required, and without compromising others’ freedom to read.
I’ve been building and developing communities, queer and otherwise for decades. I’m also trans, and live it first hand.
The per user approach puts a cost on each and every user, and that cost can sometimes be too much for vulnerable folk dealing with harassment. Blocking the bigot with a throw away account after being exposed to the bigotry is pointless, because the account was going to be abandoned anyway, and you’ve already been exposed to the raw hate.
It makes it impossible to just have fun and enjoy your social media experience when you’re always waiting for the next bigot to drop it.
Instance level blocking resolves a lot of that.
Your theory of what will work just doesn’t cut it for many vulnerable folk, and it’s not going to start cutting it just because you want to debate the topic.
But letting everyone label accounts and posts and run feeds of moderation advice is a lot quicker at booting someone from the virtual space than waiting around for someone to come and decide that yes, so-and-so really has broken BigPDSHost policy and shall be deleted. It’s also a great way to find who you want to boot.
Like, each user is individually kicked off the PDS in reaction to some bad thing they did? Or labeling is reactive in that it labels bad stuff already posted, and each user has to pick labelers to listen to themselves?
I’m not sure if Bluesky’s front-end defaults to using some particular labelers. I know there’s some moderation going on for you as soon as you log in, done by someone.
But yes, each user has to choose whose moderation decisions they want to use, and they can’t rely on everyone they can see also seeing exactly the same space they themselves are seeing. But I’m not sure it’s possible or even desirable to get rid of the requirement/ability to choose your mods. I should be able to be in a community that has mods I trust, and the community chatting to itself and determining that so-and-so is a great mod who we should all listen to, and then all listening to them, sounds like a good idea to me.
Being able to see and talk to people who aren’t in the same space I’m in might not be as good?
No, what leads to those attacks is politicians creating and stoking culture wars, and a media feeding in to that war because it makes them money.
The attacks won’t magically stop if trans people just make themselves more open to being attacked. All that will happen is more of us will get hurt or die.
While sometimes it’s impossible to make sure that an environment is completely free of bigots (or any sort of bad faith actor), if you don’t get rid of the ones that you see, they’ll eventually take over the space.
And “getting rid of them” doesn’t mean to simply hiding them from your sight (what effectively Bluesky does). It’s just a nest of cockroaches, you know? It’s still breeding inside your wall, even if you don’t see it.
What they call moderation is just muting posts so that you don’t see them.
Thank you, my dear man! Registering there right now. EDIT: … maybe not “man”, wasn’t looking too close . “being”
No thanks. I don’t want bigots hidden in a space I use, I want them absent.
Yeah, see, there’s that issue of most people having disagreements on who’s a bigot, and also sometimes using such rules in bad faith. And since hiding what you don’t want to read is insufficient to you, you may be an example of the latter, possibly even unconsciously.
So you’ll have to live with the fact that nobody is absent. One can’t change that anyway.
It’s funny, IRL people I talk to in this tone are usually those actual bigots.
No, but it’s easier to use something more general instead of an array of words to refer to every letter of LGBTQNE (the last two being non-carbon and electronic)
EDIT: Also it makes me nostalgic over “gentlebeing” from Star Wars EU
What they call moderation is just muting posts so that you don’t see them. No thanks. I don’t want bigots hidden in a space I use, I want them absent.
That’s impossible though.
You have them everywhere including on Lemmy.
They’re not on my instances or any instance I federate with.
Just because you are not aware doesn’t mean they don’t exist.
Reading into blahaj.zoje more, plenty of queer folk are friendly and supportive, but plenty are also pieces of shit. Sometimes you may also not realize if you create an echo chamber what is acceptable and what bleeds into extremist rhetoric.
I don’t give a crap about “echo chambers”. I give a crap about creating a safe environment for a group of folk that are actively under attack.
And that means getting rid of the bigots, not just hiding them
I get wanting a safe space from persecution.
But echo chambers are dangerous and can really distort your reality. I personally find going from a safe space/echo chamber to reality very jarring and much more conflicting than from a relatively safe space with some conflict to reality.
By shutting it all out I’d argue you are risking hurting yourself unless you can guarantee a safe space in every aspect of life which is very difficult.
Echo chambers aren’t that bad. I don’t surround myself with people and things I like because the ones I don’t like are going to hurt me, I do it because I don’t like them and my life is too short to waste with their nonsense.
Not as dangerous as the hate trans people face every single day from the government, from media and from society at large.
People need a space where they can let their guard down. Creating that space is my goal.
The sad truth is, no space ever lets us completely let our guard down, but we get as close as we can.
Communities trying to make spaces as safe as possible isn’t some slippery slope. This is either disingenuous or ignorant of the reality we face as trans folk.
There are no truly safe spaces for us. Even our safe spaces aren’t completely safe, because bad faith folk do their best to make it that way. Yet even so, many of us benefit from spaces that are actively inclusive, and remove bigots. Appeals to slippery slopes, or implications that we simply don’t understand how looking after our own needs is somehow bad don’t change our lived reality
Not really comparable to ethnic\religious\racial hate anywhere in the civilized world.
OK, I seem to answer lots of your comments not touching the actual core of the subject.
See, “per user” moderation is good because everybody’s idea of bigotry is subjective. Bad because it’s reactive, as you said, which means it takes effort from the user.
“Per community” is sometimes acceptable, though it always gets ugly over time. I’ve been a forum mod from time to time in the late 00s, I know what I’m talking about. If you can believe me, I stop being unhinged when handed opportunity to ban people.
“Per instance” is bullshit.
See, this has already been solved for email with client-side spam filters.
Or, with social media, you can in theory have kill-lists (for users and everything they post, or for separate posts), and subscribe to those. So, just like you want, somebody bans a user and everybody subscribed to that kill-list stops seeing them. No effort required, and without compromising others’ freedom to read.
I’ve been building and developing communities, queer and otherwise for decades. I’m also trans, and live it first hand.
The per user approach puts a cost on each and every user, and that cost can sometimes be too much for vulnerable folk dealing with harassment. Blocking the bigot with a throw away account after being exposed to the bigotry is pointless, because the account was going to be abandoned anyway, and you’ve already been exposed to the raw hate.
It makes it impossible to just have fun and enjoy your social media experience when you’re always waiting for the next bigot to drop it.
Instance level blocking resolves a lot of that.
Your theory of what will work just doesn’t cut it for many vulnerable folk, and it’s not going to start cutting it just because you want to debate the topic.
You can kick bigots off a Bluesky PDS.
But letting everyone label accounts and posts and run feeds of moderation advice is a lot quicker at booting someone from the virtual space than waiting around for someone to come and decide that yes, so-and-so really has broken BigPDSHost policy and shall be deleted. It’s also a great way to find who you want to boot.
Right, but it’s reactive and on a per user basis.
Like, each user is individually kicked off the PDS in reaction to some bad thing they did? Or labeling is reactive in that it labels bad stuff already posted, and each user has to pick labelers to listen to themselves?
I’m not sure if Bluesky’s front-end defaults to using some particular labelers. I know there’s some moderation going on for you as soon as you log in, done by someone.
But yes, each user has to choose whose moderation decisions they want to use, and they can’t rely on everyone they can see also seeing exactly the same space they themselves are seeing. But I’m not sure it’s possible or even desirable to get rid of the requirement/ability to choose your mods. I should be able to be in a community that has mods I trust, and the community chatting to itself and determining that so-and-so is a great mod who we should all listen to, and then all listening to them, sounds like a good idea to me.
Being able to see and talk to people who aren’t in the same space I’m in might not be as good?
Exactly, because you are nobody to decide for others what they want and don’t want to read.
That’s literally how moderation on Bluesky works… You choose the people you want to moderate and curate your feed…
Echo chambers are what leads to those attacs.
No, what leads to those attacks is politicians creating and stoking culture wars, and a media feeding in to that war because it makes them money.
The attacks won’t magically stop if trans people just make themselves more open to being attacked. All that will happen is more of us will get hurt or die.
Can confirm, I’ve had issues with the pieces of shit before, although never on the fediverse.
While sometimes it’s impossible to make sure that an environment is completely free of bigots (or any sort of bad faith actor), if you don’t get rid of the ones that you see, they’ll eventually take over the space.
And “getting rid of them” doesn’t mean to simply hiding them from your sight (what effectively Bluesky does). It’s just a nest of cockroaches, you know? It’s still breeding inside your wall, even if you don’t see it.
Thank you, my dear man! Registering there right now. EDIT: … maybe not “man”, wasn’t looking too close . “being”
Yeah, see, there’s that issue of most people having disagreements on who’s a bigot, and also sometimes using such rules in bad faith. And since hiding what you don’t want to read is insufficient to you, you may be an example of the latter, possibly even unconsciously.
So you’ll have to live with the fact that nobody is absent. One can’t change that anyway.
It’s funny, IRL people I talk to in this tone are usually those actual bigots.
“Man” or “Being”. Heaven forbid you actually acknowledge a woman…
Ah, I’ve just jumped to the conclusion that since the conversation is about trans people, that we can exclude
So it’s just trans people that you call “beings?”
No, but it’s easier to use something more general instead of an array of words to refer to every letter of LGBTQNE (the last two being non-carbon and electronic)
EDIT: Also it makes me nostalgic over “gentlebeing” from Star Wars EU
So simply queerphobia then. Imagine my surprise
I see no phobia here. But also I’m conscious of what’s called “hetero” being a great many things too.
I just don’t want to be bothered with correct addressings and pronouns when it’s clear by default that we are all different
Except for men it seems…
The day we start removing people from the Internet for their ideology is the day the experiment dies.
Note the bit where I said “space I use”.