Why in the flying fuck someone could think that’s a smart move, I mean, if I would like to talk to an “AI” I would self-host my own “AI” girlfriend.

That’s so fucking creepy and dumb.

  • ribboo@lemm.ee
    73·
    10 months ago

    I’ll go with the actual unpopular opinion.

    I would love to use an AI to set up what sort of woman I’m interested in, topics it can discuss and whatnot. Then let it swipe for me, start and maintain some short conversations in my writing style. It could notify when it’s time to ask the person out on a date and from there on I could take over the conversation.

    It’s dystopian for sure, but getting a date is basically just a numbers game. Would love getting to skip actually doing that part…

    • Just_Pizza_Crust@lemmy.world
      2·
      10 months ago

      My biggest issue with that is people would deliberately lie to the AI to improve their chances of finding a match they like, disregarding any preference their potential partner would have.

      For example, plenty of women typically don’t find balding/bald guys attractive in comparison. So if most women’s AI avoided balding men, then the balding men would just find ways to obfuscate their baldness. Then the women would have to verify for themselves that the guy isn’t bald, making the AI useless in that regard.

      Also the AI will definitely charge for its services, and I will never pay to go on a date with someone.

      Edit: also, if you’re asking women to chat with a bot of yourself, rather than yourself, you severely underestimate the amount of matches and messages we get on any dating app. Why would I ever waste time talking to a bot when there’s real guys to chat with?

      • ribboo@lemm.ee
        1·
        10 months ago

        Haha yeah for sure. Though that’s already done today with very old pictures and the likes.

        I guess the user (me) would be the one paying!

        I’m not at all underestimating that, it’s the very reason I would like a bot to do it. For an average guy there’s about a 2% of getting a match. After that you need to get a response, which is far from an easy feat. Honestly, I’d be pleased with an AI that swiped for me and got the first reply to be honest.

        It’s just tedious work for - often - very little benefit!