• stebo@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    9 months ago

    It depends on how she asked

    Everyone is saying this, but OP put the exact quote in quotation marks and it is clearly not friendly at all in any situation.

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      9 months ago

      Yeah I agree if that’s literally all she said, or I don’t know if he cut her sentence and only used the bit in his post that offended him.

      I just know that sometimes if you look a certain way and dress a certain way people assume you’re rude no matter what you actually do or say. This happens a lot with young women because of sexism. Like if you’re not a soft spoken “good girl” you’re taken for a removed.

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        9 months ago

        That’s fair, we don’t know the exact situation so either she was actually rude or OP is exaggerating.