was discussing this with a friend of mine (she’s an anarchist but she actually organizes and shit). she was saying there can be no such thing as revolutionary masculinity because the two things are contradictory. but i’m a marxist so contradictions really butter my bread.

i think in a utopian, communist world gender identity would be completely different, to the point where it might not even be legible to us today, but my question is more about how we get from here to there. basically, can we men find a way to not be shitheads in such a way as to bring about communism, or does that not even make sense

feel free to dunk on me if this is a dumb question

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    9 months ago

    I agree that misogyny is directly tied to this, but I also agree with @Awoo@hexbear.net that role models for teenagers is the answer. Whenever I’m doing anticapitalist propaganda while talking to men, I always touch on misogyny with it. Because both are related to empathy, someone who is truly empathic will fight both capitalism and misogyny. I refuse to believe teenagers are looking for reasons to hate women, they are angry and rebellious and looking for anything to validate their insecurities. When they find scum like Tate they think they found the bible, not because they understand the ideology, but just because he’s contrarian and is talking about things relevant to teenage boys. @immuredanchorite@hexbear.net mentioned how easy it is to flip these ideas and that honestly works because these are kids, all we have to do is make them feel they’re seen.

    Edit: also this isn’t just a social media scene with Tate or whatever, it’s everywhere. If the kid looks to his dad, he’s a misogynist. If he looks to older boys, they’re misogynists. The only answer to validation teen boys get is rooted in hatred for women.

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      When they find scum like Tate they think they found the bible, not because they understand the ideology, but just because he’s contrarian and is talking about things relevant to teenage boys.

      It’s important to understand that these boys are genuinely looking for an instruction manual too. They want to know how to be “alpha”, they want to know how to get girls, and they want to know how to be the genius like some protag from their favourite anime. They’re looking for instruction manuals and they find these people who promise to be them. It’s exactly how pua took off in the first place and this entire sphere of online influence began with that.