I hate pubs. I hate bars. All the people, loud music and other overstimulations make my brain go crazy… but most of my friends want to go to bars. Its seems like they are enjoying themselves… any tips to either get better att handeling sutch situations in fututure so i wont be as much of a antisosial outsider?

Cheers

  • Anissem
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    1 year ago

    Just saying you may be fighting a losing battle to some extents. Some of my old circle of friends just had too different of interests. I eventually got tired of trying to find my place in these situations.

    • ab60753@lemmy.sdf.orgOP
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      1 year ago

      I see your point. At this time and place we do have alot of similair interests but certsin times (like when they go to a pub) i just cant join them. But ill make sure to be aware if i notice this kind of occurence increase drastically in frequency