I grew up in (foreign) country A but then moved back to my home country (B) with my parents. I plan to move back to country A eventually because I feel 100% at home in the culture there, but am just a bit unsure about the timing. The problem is that I’d like to get into dating (I’m 21) and country A has a really low amount of people of my type, whereas the country I’m originally from (B) has plenty (but I only feel 70-80% at home here). So I’m thinking I might postpone my move back to country A where this won’t really be possible until in a couple of years when I’m more happy to settle down. I wanted to ask you older folks if you think this is a wise idea.

  • SubArcticTundraOP
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    4 months ago

    Thanks for this advice. Yes, I’m not looking for marriage for a long while. What you say about staying in country B makes sense.

    It sounds like you’re from a culture/religion that is somewhat insular.

    Yes this is true to an extent