yewler [she/her]

I wish opsec wasn’t a concern cause I wanna post pics so bad 😭

HOOOOOOOLY FUCKING SHIT

I was not prepared for how much I had underestimated how fun skirt go spinny was gonna be

I attend a trans support group in my area, but it’s specific to well… support. How might I go about finding actual trans friends?

:3

What did he do? I don’t catch much YouTube drama.

Socks indeed! I’m basically obsessed with them hehe

Last night I shaved my legs and did a little fashion show in the mirror other the only femme clothes I own: my socks. It was so funnnn

I’m still very much experimenting with colors, but here is a rough approximation of the stuff I’m playing with

Yeah it is all internal, and it feels so good!

I literally didn’t have a favorite color as a dude I was so embarrassingly boring. I’m currently in the process of actually trying to figure that out and it feels nice not being an actual empty husk of a person.

It’s just weird because having a favorite color doesn’t really have anything to do with gender but in a way I feel free to have one now in a way I haven’t before? Idk I can’t explain it but it’s 100% connected to being trans, and I’m not complaining. So much stuff has felt more open has far as self discovery is concerned. I feel like I’m actually starting to have opinions and interests and stuff, and it’s such a foreign idea to me.

But virtually nothing has actually changed in my life due to being trans yet. I wear cute socks and a handful of people call me a name I like, but I already feel soooooooooo much changing in my mind just from realizing I don’t have to be a guy if I don’t want to.

Oh right opsec exists lol

Worrying about the non enumerable ways a human can fuck up sounds hard

It’s wild how I’m finally starting to feel like I actually have a personality

What does the app do?

That makes a lot of sense. Though the trans support group I attend irl is chock full of IT support people

Is the trans <-> programmer connection as strong as they say it is? If so, why is that? I ask this as a person with a comp sci degree lol

Oh yeah I knew the answer to the Matt Walsh one haha. The spirit of the question really was trying to figure out if it makes sense for me personally to identify as a woman, and right now I believe I feel most comfy as a transfemme nonbinary person.

Yeah I need to get more fluent and comfortable with this idea. I guess it kinda feels nice to be able to neatly put myself into a category that other people are in too. I don’t like the idea of my gender experience being something no one else relates to. So I guess asking if it is a thing is my asking if there are more people than me in this category I’ve thought up during my pondering

HOLY SHITTTTTTTT THAT’S SO MEEEEEEE. Oh my gosh thanks for helping me figure this out. I’m so pumped! The sheer quantity of gender revelations I’ve had on this website since I’ve joined is bonkers.

Who knows, this might change once I eventually try out estrogen, but transfemme enby feels super good right now.

Holy shit reading this post set my noggin spinning. Because that’s exactly what I’ve been feeling. Gender is made up bullshit anyway so what the hell am I doing thinking about transitioning into the opposite end of an arbitrary binary. Everything in me feels like non binary makes the most logical sense for me.

I really don’t feel like a man, and I don’t feel like a woman. But I prefer the fuck out of femme pronouns and my aggressively femme sounding name.

Is nonbinary she/her like… A thing? Cause I think that might be me as fuck. Judging by your post and your set pronouns, is that how you identify?