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Cake day: October 23rd, 2024

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  • I was genuinely confused what you were talking about and then i remembered this post which you either recalled or went through my comment history.

    Either way, i have no idea what you thought your comment would achieve. I have no interest in defending tankies so please don’t pull stuff out of context. I simply disagreed that the entire server was auth. And we can disagree on that, tbh, i have very little interest in debating it because it doesn’t change that:

    • im not auth.
    • again, i have no interest in defending tankies

    I hope this is clear enough for us to be civil together.













  • Why didn’t he fight for me and his relationship

    Instead of asking yourself why he didn’t fight for you and your relationship, tell yourself that you are worth more than that. I know it’s easier said than done but the idea is to have some self worth and to know your worth. Don’t let people walk over you, and that also means don’t give a get out of jail free card for any unknown thing he may have done. That is belittling to yourself and you’re worth more than that. He made a choice, and if he doesn’t want to fight for you then don’t fight for him.

    Beyond that, find a new hobby or interest and dive into that. Bonus points if it is some kind of group where you meet new people. Find ways to be happy with yourself before the next relationship.

    Best of luck. And I’ll add to the choir that time does help. It may feel like you’re drowning now but everything will be ok and work out for the best.