StillNoLeftLeft [none/use name, she/her]

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Cake day: November 12th, 2024

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  • I found it be pretty hard to approach as well as I fully contradicted even myself on my own understanding of it in only two comments.

    What I am seeing here is the way people have very different understandings of it depending on lived experience and even the context where it gets applied. Not sure if that makes the choice good or bad. It still doesn’t seem to align much with the tank though.

    But I too am ok with it, if this is what the community decides. I do think peoples concerns about it should be addressed.







  • I will admit that I did not know all this about the history of the word gossip.

    But while I respect the goal of reclaiming terms in general, as a woman I really dislike the name nonetheless. It might be my own internalized stuff, but having spent a lifetime listening to gossiping being ridiculed and having had to actively distance mysels from it to be taken seriously, I feel like if this reclaiming was to be done, it should be done by women only first.

    Also gossiping and the dunk tank just vibe very differently for me. Gossiping isn’t nearly always an act of condemnation, it is often just social knowledge transfer and socializing. The tank was crearly something very different. If gossip is most often understood as an activity that women do then making a place like the tank be gossip makes gossip look bad, I hope this makes sense.