This is such a great analogy. All of my adult life I’ve listened to people removed about how horrible HOAs are…and also people go running to complain to the HOA the instant a neighbor does something they don’t like. It’s funny how people want it both ways. “Rules for thee, not for me” is a contagion I guess.
I like “lemmies” but I haven’t seen it used much…if ever…perhaps I made it up.