If you don’t like social media, why would you pretend to like social media to attract someone else who REALLY REALLY cares about social media? It’s bound to fail.
It’s not that these people actively care about social media or anything, it’s just a regular part of life. I’m like OP here in the sense that I don’t have any active social media attached to my name but I have some token pseudonymous social media accounts for exactly this reason. Being this obstinate about it is legitimately a huge red flag, and imo indicates that you’ve given up even more control of your life to social media, rather than understanding how to use it as a tool for a set of narrowly defined tasks.
Whether someone cares about social media or not does not mean they wouldn’t be compatible in many other ways. If a person wants to close the door because of that then it’s a reflection on the person who closed the door, not the person who chooses not to participate.
If you don’t like social media, why would you pretend to like social media to attract someone else who REALLY REALLY cares about social media? It’s bound to fail.
…he didn’t pretend to like social media
It’s college. Every girl doesn’t need to be treated like a potential marriage.
Life doesn’t need to be serious when you are young. That’s a huge mistake I made.
It’s not that these people actively care about social media or anything, it’s just a regular part of life. I’m like OP here in the sense that I don’t have any active social media attached to my name but I have some token pseudonymous social media accounts for exactly this reason. Being this obstinate about it is legitimately a huge red flag, and imo indicates that you’ve given up even more control of your life to social media, rather than understanding how to use it as a tool for a set of narrowly defined tasks.
Whether someone cares about social media or not does not mean they wouldn’t be compatible in many other ways. If a person wants to close the door because of that then it’s a reflection on the person who closed the door, not the person who chooses not to participate.
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