• FierroGamer@sh.itjust.works
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    1 year ago

    Helps realizing that it’s not that she deserves better but your brain makes up that excuse so it’s easier to dump her having an excuse you can believe in… Well, it helps getting over the impulse, it doesn’t actually help the situation, I don’t think.

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      1 year ago

      Yeah absolutely BS reason.

      Minimally Anon should have the balls to at least say he can’t deal with it no more.

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        1 year ago

        Copium may be a meme, but it’s an actual defense mechanism, we convince ourselves of reasons to soften the blow