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  • ilyenkov [she/her, they/them]@hexbear.netEnglish
    8·
    1 year ago

    I have a girlfriend! And also I’m her girlfriend! And idk if this makes sense to anyone else, but I’ve decided that I’m agender but also have girl vibes. I don’t have a gender, I’m not a woman. But, in spirit, I’m a girl sometimes

    • ilyenkov [she/her, they/them]@hexbear.netEnglish
      7·
      1 year ago

      Okay, I asked her to use more fem terms on me, to see how they feel. And she keeps saying I’m a good girl and uhhhhhhhjhhhhhjhhhh Also she said I looked like a cozy lesbian when I wore a flannel and felt awful cuz I thought I looked like a man. I love her so much And so I asked a bunch of friends and they all Saud shit like “oh yeah, you give fem vibes,” and “yeah I was surprised you used they/them not she/they”

      Why am I the last person to see something about myself??,n Life is confusing

        • TerminalEncounter [she/her]@hexbear.netEnglish
          5·
          1 year ago

          It’s okay to have femme vibes! If it’s something you really like try presenting a little more femme and having people use she/they! Cis people kinda suck at the she/they and he/they pronouns, cause they never use the neutral one unless you put it first lol

          I’ve encountered plenty of enbys who only really have a gender amongst the trans, I dunno we all kinda get it and accept it.