• Seraph@kbin.social
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    77
    arrow-down
    3
    ·
    edit-2
    1 year ago

    Tell her you’re interested but never stick your dick in a girl the first time when she wasted. She can’t legally make a decision in that state of mind.

    • RHOPKINS13@kbin.social
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      35
      arrow-down
      13
      ·
      1 year ago

      Ain’t it funny how if a guy has sex with a drunk chick, he’s “taking advantage of her and the situation,” but if a chick has sex with a drunk guy it’s rarely seen that way, and in either case if she ends up pregnant she can go after the guy for child support for the next 18 years…

      • Nepenthe@kbin.social
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        30
        arrow-down
        1
        ·
        edit-2
        1 year ago

        Increased awareness of and respect for men who have been abused? UBI or some other welfare net generously funded enough that a parent didn’t have to care about pursuing some private citizen that wasn’t interested in being involved? I’m all for that.

        Both of those would be an improvement so massive it is never going to happen, especially the second one. That would have been life changing for me in so many ways. I wouldn’t even be who I am, christ.

        Unfortunately, it usually turns out they meant “How come getting them drunk has to matter” and “I don’t care about starving children and I’ll say so out loud.”

        • Kusimulkku@lemm.ee
          link
          fedilink
          arrow-up
          1
          arrow-down
          1
          ·
          1 year ago

          Finns wouldn’t have sex at all if finding someone at a bar was verboten lol

            • captainlezbian@lemmy.world
              link
              fedilink
              arrow-up
              2
              ·
              1 year ago

              Similarly drunk is generally cool. If it feels like either of you might be letting the drinking do the thinking exchange numbers instead.

              Like I’ve had great drunk sex. But I also know people who were too drunk to say no and absolutely were raped. In general don’t have sex you think either of you will regret.