• No_@lemm.ee
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    1 year ago

    How dare you say that to someone with autism about their own experiences? Seems like you’re just inflammatory and an asshole.

    • Dym Sohin@lemmy.world
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      1 year ago

      hi, i am in fact someone else with autism (undiscovered for 30+ years, it was quite a find) but also with a physical birth defect, which was very much defining and way more impactful.

      “didn’t ask being born” is a trend most people go through at some point, especially in lower classes, where life itself is a struggle if not outright suffering. but who else can you blame for your existence if not your parents?

      this is a pain point, which can not be ignored forever. “put on a front” only works until it doesnt anymore, and its better to talk about it instead of waiting until someone snapped. resenting and rebelling against parents is part of growing up, no matter the mental or physical condition.

      but no one is really at fault, personally, everyone did their best they could at the time, and the best everyone can do is help each other.