• squeakycat
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    1 year ago

    I’m sorry it hasn’t been positive for you. Would you be open to sharing some of your experiences?

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      1 year ago

      Sure, it’s not anything too tragic or traumatic. Openness has often been met with derision or mockery. Even if the other person is supportive during the initial openness, whatever is confessed is often brought up later for more negativity. In some cases, if my feelings were about a separate individual and I was seeking advice about them, the person to whom I was talking has taken what was said to the other individual in question.

      Generally speaking, it seems best to avoid.

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        1 year ago

        Wow, that’s awful. While not tragic, that does sound like little-t traumatic. What a way to discourage opening up. I’m sorry you had to go through with that. I hope you eventually find some better friends that can more respectfully hold your emotions.