• Default_Defect@midwest.social
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      Easily possible. Grow up somewhere with a lot of macho man mentality with a toxic masculine father figure that wants nothing more than for you to grow up to be their clone that only like MAN stuff. Took me over 30 years to be hugged the way I didn’t know i needed to be hugged because I fell into a friendship with a woman that knew a few broken men.

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      1 year ago

      I don’t have any answer. Perhaps, fault lies with me, perhaps, I am just unlucky.

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          Me? Mostly in the state of depression. /s

          I couldn’t resist. I live in India.

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            Lol nice. Well I’m sorry, if you lived in the US in a state that we frequent, I would get you a few hugs. Maybe you should just make a sign that says free hugs and stand in the middle of a public area. I’ll bet you would get some real good ones…