• Burn_The_Right@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    I have spent a lifetime trying to reason with conservatives. I have learned that they cannot change their foundational opinions. Changing one’s mind is not a quality of a conservative.

    Every act of bigotry, racism, xenophobia, homophobia, antisemitism and misogyny comes from conservatives. They are famously anti-science, anti-medicine and anti-worker. Yet, you say I am the one creating division. You are clearly wrong on this one.

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      1 year ago

      So you plan to solve this by isolating yourself? I’m just trying to understand why you’re thinking the way that you are.

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        1 year ago

        I am not isolated in any way. In fact, I’ve never felt more free since openly recognizing and excluding people who espouse harmful ideologies. The friends and family I keep now are vastly superior in quality to the mix of questionable motherfuckers I allowed into my circle in the past.

        I was born and raised in a conservative lifestyle. I’ve been around conservatives my whole life. I recently retired from an industry infested with conservatism. I kept my mouth shut for a very long time, trying to give them some benefit of the doubt. But they have always proven themselves to be exactly as vile as they claim to be.

        When the pandemic hit, I found I had fantastic excuses to easily remove most conservatives from my life. After the pandemic, I have continued that trend and my stress is truly the lowest it’s been my whole life.

        I don’t mince words when dealing with conservatives. I am not interested in debates or changing their minds or keeping relationships with them. They chose their enemies, I did not.

        In advising others to disown conservatives, I am inviting normal people to work past and around conservatives rather than wasting valuable time trying to go through them. Conservatives will not change. They will never stop being bigots, misogynists, xenophobes, racists and homophobes. They will never be pro-worker, pro-science or pro-education. The very few of them that can change in any small way already have.

        Conservatives genuinely delight in the misery of others, so engaging with them is not a worthwhile endeavor unless it is to put them in their place. Disowning and excluding them is a healthy way to move forward and find progress with higher quality people while avoiding the harmful, dangerous and inappropriate bullshit that comes from conservatism.

        I hope that has cleared up my position for you in some way.