I have to ask this. Is there a service where I could bring my own FQN like Notgoogle.com and then have them handle emails for me? But with a twist… I want notgoogle.com to send and receive emails via that outside entity, but I want to send the emails from a self hosted server that maybe has mailcow or similar and I want that same server to receive the emails from the outside company. Ideally the outside company is basically just a relay from my IP to the outside world and vise versa. The outside company would basically hold the emails until my server checked and downloaded them. any advice on this. Hopefully with a useful step by step guide from somewhere in the webs?
This is exactly the setup I want. Man, I got thousands of notifications and spam pretending to be real notifications I’m tired of it.
I don’t actually want to need to VPN into my home network. I want to use the Mozilla K9 app and login like that if possible. So we would login to the server via some sort of app, in the background the server would send and receive emails and so we would never again touch gmail directly. And exactly, we could add a side service to transition over seamlessly. And how you describe the email addresses for individual purpose is excellent. Spam? Want me to unsubscribe? How about I delete the email address, and you waste your time emailing? I love it!