• vovo@lemmy.dbzer0.comOP
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      12 hours ago

      Where is that? I think women often don’t walk around topless because men sexualize them or take photos, etc.

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        12 hours ago

        As a woman who’s done it: it’s mostly just awkward. I don’t go topless unless it’s an occasion warranting it or it’s way too damn hot to wear a shirt. The men don’t help for certain, but there’s just also the element of being the only shirtless woman around

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        11 hours ago

        Could be anywhere, it’s legal in a lot of the US but nobody partakes because it draws unwanted attention.

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          9 hours ago

          Which is how it SHOULD be viewed! If you’re going to be intentionally sexy in a public place, you should expect people to notice. I don’t walk down the street with my balls hanging out of my pants…well, unless I’m single.

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            9 hours ago

            Being shirtless isn’t being sexy is just being shirtless, not the same as balls, and thinking that your balls would help you not being single is…weird

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              9 hours ago

              You just admitted that balls are sexy. How WOULDN’T they help me not be single?

              Fetticini

              Linguini

              Bikini

              Martini

              You’re gonna love my nuts!