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      That’s what I’ve been calling it for years, funnily. Like, I don’t practice meditation in general, but just letting time pass, chilling out, not focusing on anything to get into a state of mind that lets time flow faster, to me, has always been meditation.

      I’m kinda laughing reading about this whole “raw dogging” thing. What a ridiculously macho way of talking about it.

      I suppose they could call it “sitting to attention”, maybe? Like a palace guard you know? If they wanted to sound more macho without actually sounding like a creep.

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      I have never had success with meditation alone. My brain is like a bumblebee swarm in a beach ball.

      I enjoy guided meditation if the leader is soft spoken and knows what they’re doing!

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        My tactic when meditating specifically is to imagine myself as a mountain. Any thoughts are just like clouds. Let them pass with the wind. It’s ok to have them, but do not hold on to them. For the mountain is unconcerned by a cloud.

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        Have you ever tried doing a mindful activity, like mindful walking or mindful eating? You might find that one of those are your jam if you have a hard time by yourself! They give you an activity to focus on.

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        One of the important things in many kinds of meditation is it’s not about stopping the bees, but noticing them.

        I remember hearing about some Buddhist monk who was famed for his meditation. Someone asked him how long he could sit before his mind wandered “oh about seven seconds normally”. He just got very good at noticing when his mind wandered and trying again.

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      More people really should meditate and none of that western appropriated sanitised stuff

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          I don’t really have any form to recomend because I don’t follow any specific form and have developed my own based on my own experience and integrating anything that works for me personally

          I’d suggest looking online and finding stuff that works for you and intergrate it into your meditation practice