For me there’s a bit of a network effect where the polycule sprawls out into the distance. Partners have partners who have partners.

But for disconnected folks, it’s mostly been tinder (yuck), and a local meetup.

(Also this might be the first post? That or nothing federated yet)

  • Scratch@sh.itjust.works
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    4 months ago

    If it be apps you be using.

    OkCupid has a decent Poly community.

    FEELD seems tailored towards non-monogamy.

    Maybe check around FetLife for some “munches” (vanilla social meet ups) and see if you gel with anyone.