• dohpaz42@lemmy.world
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    18
    arrow-down
    1
    ·
    edit-2
    2 months ago

    This may be unpopular, but arguing with or trolling people only serves to strengthen their bias, and you look as petty (if not more) than the people you’re trolling. It’s a lose-lose situation.

    It’s a hard pill to swallow, but you convincing a Christian that they’re wrong about their beliefs is as effective as them convincing you their beliefs are correct. It’s two sides of the same coin. Instead of evangelizing about atheism, make it known you’re there to listen and if they have questions then you’ll be happy to give them answers. Criticizing ones core beliefs and values will only cause them to shutdown and stop listening. It doesn’t matter how correct you are; they will double down on their beliefs and you’ll become the bad guy.

    For example, I have a group of neighbors who are all very religious. Most of them know where I stand, and how I feel. One of them even took the time to sit me down and express how worried about me she is. I listened. I politely explained my position, and we both went about our ways.

    Most of these people are still good people at their core. They are misguided; I won’t argue that. But to them, they are doing the right thing. Just like you feel you’re doing the right thing. This ain’t the movies; nobody thinks of themselves as a villain. Everyone is both the main character and hero of their stories.

    That said, all you can do is speak your peace and carry on. Other people will either agree or they won’t. No sense in wasting yours or their time otherwise.

    Thank you for coming to my TED talk.

  • _stranger_@lemmy.world
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    11
    ·
    2 months ago

    Fentanyl, but it’s words.

    It doesn’t take a lot to give false hope to someone at rock bottom, just swap out one crutch for another.

  • Etterra@lemmy.world
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    7
    ·
    2 months ago

    I’ve met a few guys named Jesus and I can confirm that they didn’t give a damn in the slightest.

  • WeLoveCastingSpellz@lemmy.dbzer0.com
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    3
    arrow-down
    1
    ·
    2 months ago

    even though they’re evangalising lies from our point of view, they’re doing an actually a good thing, helping desperate people and hell what they’re evangelising aren’t lies to them, so respect what they belive in if you expec them to respect what you belive in and regardless appreciate the help they’re providing to desperate people who happen to be christians

  • Uriel238 [all pronouns]@lemmy.blahaj.zone
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    2
    ·
    2 months ago

    Simple websearches connects this to Groundwire and Champion Ministries, which have a minimal footprint considering their websites. So this smacks of being a false front to hide the identities of its benefactors, much the way the whole He Gets Us campaign.

    So approach cautiously.

    That said, the statement of faith of Champion is more interested in getting you onboard with Christianity so you can die with a saved soul, than the survive-then-thrive model that is typical of services that use psychological models (first get you out of crisis, then get you to where you can make life choices, than facilitate those choices towards a functional life).

    This is to say I wouldn’t actually trust its counseling to actually be useful to callers anymore than a priest at the side of a critical patient. (Comforting if the guy is already a Christian, detrimental if otherwise. I have to explain my jokes.)

  • bramkaandorp@lemmy.world
    link
    fedilink
    English
    arrow-up
    1
    ·
    2 months ago

    I wouldn’t be surprised to learn that there isn’t even a person on the other end, but instead it’s just an AI.