• Nima@leminal.space
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    5 months ago

    I avoid any pvp online game exactly for this reason. if you open your mouth to call out, you just became a target. it’s so normalized now that I have sworn off multiplayer games altogether unless they’re co-op and I can play specifically with friends.

    it really sucks.

  • VeryImportantUser@lemmy.world
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    5 months ago

    So!!! Much!!! This!!! The blatant racism and transphobia that is endlessly spewed in all multiplayer games is simply disgusting. The racist and transphobic players need to be held accountable. Permaban them, hardware ban them, report them for hate crime. Simple as that.

  • mindbleach@sh.itjust.works
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    5 months ago

    Reliable enforcement beats harsh punishment, when changing people’s behavior. I tell forum mods to hand out three-day bans like candy. It’s long enough to sting and short enough to shut up and take it.

    And seriously - you are game designers. Modifying people’s behavior through expectations is your job. Your power is so immense that charging money inside the game should probably be illegal. Find better tools than a permanent boot in the ass.

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    5 months ago

    its so annoying to play some multiplayer games because instead of cooperating we get sone kids screaming profanities at you.

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    5 months ago

    Though there is enough to be said about racism and homophobia, I think we should also be really careful with not overshooting in the other direction. I used to love shit talking with a small group of friends. No, I’m not a racist, I’m a minority, but we have a different kind of humor, which is not politically correct and we use it to kind of vent about real issues. I do know that we’d be banned in a heartbeat (we have been before) and for what? We never bother anyone, we never stalk or hareass anyone and typically were in our own little group.

    I do think people should grow a thicker skin as yes yes a thousand times yes, racism is bad, homo/trans/bi/whatever phobia is bad, it’s all bad, but these days you need to watch every word you say lest you want to get banned. Calm down, don’t ban people over jokes that in your eyes are tasteless.

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      5 months ago

      There is a wide gap between some shit talking and the vile hatred you see people spewing online.

      Telling people to harden up when smack talking their mother or their gameplay might fly… but idlt does not apply when people tell you to kill yourself in Ernest, Harras you outside a game.

      With gaming becoming more mainstream, the tight knit communities playing on curated servers and policed by community admins have been replaced by platforms hosted by big tech and infested by the assholes that used to be too cool for gaming and the basement dwellers that used to be isolated and are now emboldened by their fellow basement dwellers, rednecks, and other generally unlovable people.

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    5 months ago

    “No one needs to grow thicker skin… we’re building a world when everyone can be big blubbering pussies, forever.”

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      5 months ago

      Well, there is a very easy way to circumvent this… don’t be a dick to others.

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        5 months ago

        What’s their policy when someone buys one of these systems from one of these dickheads?

        Easier solution is to not install games that are rootkits run by a shitty company.

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          5 months ago

          What’s their policy when someone buys one of these systems from one of these dickheads?

          Most likely their policy is the same as the one Microsoft has for their games and consoles. Microsoft once told me, we’re sorry you purchased a banned console but banned consoles cannot be unblocked, buy a new one next time.