• Kusimulkku@lemm.ee
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    6 months ago

    Some just find the idea of their partner having had a lot of other partners unappealing. I get it, it’s a really common thing. I’m sure some of it is sexism but having a ton of previous partners isn’t very appealing to a lot of women either. Plenty of jokes about someone having so many diseases that their dick falls off lol

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      6 months ago

      It’s okay to not find it appealing but it’s still not okay to call someone a slut because you feel like they had too many sexual partners. It’s easy as that ¯_(ツ)_/¯

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        6 months ago

        I didn’t mean to imply calling someone a slut was okay, just that thinking someone is a slut is just an “ick” thing for many.

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          6 months ago

          They are not slut. There’s no reason to think of someone like that. Having more sexual partners than you are being comfortable with doesn’t make someone a slut.