Even younger respondents who have never lived in such a world voted in favor of giving it a whirl

Seventy-seven percent of middle-age Americans (35-54 years old) say they want to return to a time before society was “plugged in,” meaning a time before there was widespread internet and cell phone usage. As told by a new Harris Poll (via Fast Company), 63% of younger folks (18-34 years old) were also keen on returning to a pre-plugged-in world, despite that being a world they largely never had a chance to occupy.

  • psudo@beehaw.orgEnglish
    15·
    1 year ago

    I can’t help but feel like a lot of the “the internet was better back in the day” is rose colored glasses. Things were just as fragmented, but were even less welcoming to our groups, there was more questionable content that people were trying to trick you into viewing. It definitely wasn’t all bad, but it feels like it’s coming from the same impulse as every other “things were better back in my day.”

      • psudo@beehaw.orgEnglish
        9·
        1 year ago

        You can always put your phone down. I also get the pressure to return a text/dm right away, but as far as I can tell no one that I actually want to talk to expects that immediate response.

        • Pete Hahnloser@beehaw.orgEnglish
          3·
          1 year ago

          That was a key thing to finally learn. I’d removed all the people who expected I was on call for them from my life for other reasons, which wasn’t an easy process, so everyone left is a reasonable person who texts for non-business reasons with a 1-2 day response expectation, though it’s usually much faster. If it’s more important, it’s a phone call. If they just want to chat, they text to see if I’m available before calling.

          I set my phone to not ring unless the number’s in my contacts. If someone needs to get a hold of me, they can leave a message … but never do. I get notifications for weather alerts, text messages, my transit app and when a new xkcd gets posted. I certainly check my email and other apps on occasion, but I don’t need notifications.

          Other than surrounding yourself with the right people, the whole thing takes minutes once you’ve hit that mindset.

    • Digital MarkEnglish
      1·
      1 year ago

      There was far less overt fraud in society. Ads required more investment and “truth in advertising” and political discourse was not as polarized. It did start in mid-80s, and was about 1/4 as bad by late '90s, but the Internet and esp. Facebook made it trivial to target and brainwash the weakest-minded part of society.

      Used to be everyone had to get pop culture together, news from very bland centrists together, crazy uncles couldn’t find right-wing militia newsletters as easily.

      If you were technically proficient (like me), BBS’s could be about anything, support any group, so marginalized groups weren’t completely isolated.