Hey everyone, welcome my beauties!
We are working on bringing the wiki and other resources over to lemmy. The rules are posted, but we are relaxing some of them for now as we want you to jump in and post whatever is on your mind!
Ready, set go…!
Hey everyone, welcome my beauties!
We are working on bringing the wiki and other resources over to lemmy. The rules are posted, but we are relaxing some of them for now as we want you to jump in and post whatever is on your mind!
Ready, set go…!
It’s so important not to be hard on ourselves, we are our worst critics in everything. Trying to pluck something from memory is always worse when there’s someone standing there, waiting for you to say it. Then I get frustrated, not about finding the words, but about what they might think.
What you said is so true! I have been trying to teach myself not to be hard on myself. The world will be hard on me at times; I need to be caring and guiding to myself. That tends to help. I really understand and relate to the feeling of frustration because someone is waiting on what we’re supposed to remember. When I’m in that position, I end up saying I can’t remember pretty quickly while my inner thoughts are about everything except the Thing I’m trying to remember lol.