Some of us have. Others, like Haley enabled and encourage those that haven’t. So while I agree it’s possible for people in good faith to make that optimistically incorrect assertion. Haley can’t.

And you aren’t wrong about Obama. Ironically it was Biden of all people if I remember correctly. That pushed the issue passed the tipping point. With one of his patented gaffes. But that’s why good people can justify supporting Democrats generally. Despite largely being as hurt to themselves and everyone else. They often are decent people deep down no matter how misguided they are. Eventually willing to change their views after enough pushback with facts and evidence. Haley and those like herself, however, are shown that they are just soulless selfish, sycophants in search of power.