• Mario_Dies.wav@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    10 months ago

    There are very few people that gave a shit when I was in my darkest of places, excluding some family

    I feel this to the core.

    Maybe my own optimism is just a coping mechanism, but I simply can’t believe so many people are just selfish and bad. That just doesn’t compute for me, no matter my experiences.

    If you feel so inclined, give the first chapter of that book a listen – don’t really need to read the whole thing because he just expands on details and supplies examples after that.

    Hopefully things get better for people, no matter what it takes to get there.

    Even our combined experiences would be a cakewalk for some other more unfortunare people

    Yeah, when my husband talks about his life in Mexico that left him with PTSD … and many people have it worse yet. A lot of us are walking around half broken, I think.

    Hoping for a better world.

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      10 months ago

      Believe me when I say I was a serious alcoholic for a number of years just trying to cope with life. Like you said, the pressures of capitalism were partially to blame for my stress and anxiety as it’s a very real thing for a lot of people.

      Over the years, good things have happened. My life has improved and I have stopped doing the stupid things that put me in dangerous situations. Some people helped lift me up and I have done the same for others as time went on.

      It seems that the universe, to me, is based on balance. “Good” and “evil” are complimentary and one cannot exist without the other. To be the best we can be, we have to at least understand and acknowledge the worst of the worst.

      When we manage to change the world for the better, I’ll be right there with you. (I just have a tendency to also look behind me to see who has the knife pointed at my back.)

      If that sounds stupid, that is OK! People cope. It’s something else we are really good at.