So, hear me out.

I’m a 47 year old guy and I’m not ashamed to say that I enjoy video games. I always have, from playing Head over Heels on a Speccy +2 to ESO and Valorant on my self built PC.

Due to various life circumstances, I’m also on the dating scene and to most women I meet, around my age, video games are anathema. When I say that I like them it’s usually meet with an “oh dear” or a “my son would probably love to talk to you about them, I find them really boring”

I have two boys, both teenagers, both play all the time and sometimes we all play together (although they are better as they have more time to apply to games). Their friends are amazed that I will talk about games with them, that I know someone about games and that I play games. None of their parents want to talk with them about what is effectively their main hobby that they do all the time (big sad).

So the question, there must be some sort of cut off age at which video games are no longer an acceptable pastime. Is it absolute age based (nothing after 35) or is it something to do with the progression of games into popular culture and people born after, say, 1986 will not see it as unacceptable?

I don’t have an answer, I just think it’s an interesting question. Thanks for reading, let me know what you think!

Edit to add: I’m not planning on stopping through peer pressure, just wondering about the phenomenon!

  • MedicareForSomeEnglish
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    2 years ago

    I would say it’s not really an age thing. I mean age probably plays a role but ultimately it’s just a hobby that is relatively common and not very exciting to an outsider.

    This is definitely experienced by 20 year olds too. There is definitely a social pressure.

    Based on this, 12% of people in your age bracket play video games, it’s typically a roughly 50/50 split by gender. Not exactly a small amount. I think it’s more that if you date 10 women, one will be a gamer and you’ve just not met that one.