FlashZordon@lemmy.world to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.worldEnglish · 1 年前What are some positive influences you got from an ex?message-squaremessage-square30fedilinkarrow-up158arrow-down11file-text
arrow-up157arrow-down1message-squareWhat are some positive influences you got from an ex?FlashZordon@lemmy.world to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.worldEnglish · 1 年前message-square30fedilinkfile-text
minus-squareAnticorplinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up3·1 年前I learned what behaviors I absolutely should not and will not tolerate, which made my relationships and happiness better moving forward.
minus-squareBOMBS@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2·1 年前Me too. I became a boundary border guard. Never again. The first girl I dated after her got cancelled real quick. I didn’t bother over-explaining or falling for bait to argue. I said that I need time alone, and if she didn’t like that, then bye ✌️
I learned what behaviors I absolutely should not and will not tolerate, which made my relationships and happiness better moving forward.
Me too. I became a boundary border guard. Never again. The first girl I dated after her got cancelled real quick. I didn’t bother over-explaining or falling for bait to argue. I said that I need time alone, and if she didn’t like that, then bye ✌️